My background has always been in health and education. I also worked as a LifeLine volunteer, and over the years I became very involved in the training programmes offered by LifeLine. I’m now the LifeLine Training Manager, and my portfolio is to set up and co-ordinate all the in-house training programmes for all LifeLine centres. These include the personal growth training courses as well as the communication and counselling skills courses that we run throughout the year. In addition to this, I deal with any external requests, co-ordinating the training programmes that LifeLine runs for NGOs and businesses.

The five day long LifeLine Peer Educator Training Workshop is far more intensive and strenuous. It’s very experiential and uses a great deal of role-play.

Before we can enable people to become Peer Educators, they are asked to explore their own worlds and attitudes. From here we can move on to unpacking the myths and misnomers around HIV. We concentrate on information and education regarding HIV and AIDS, but we never throw information at the trainees - we introduce it in an interactive manner so they are able to process how they feel as they explore their personal perspective and attitudes.

We introduce counselling skills and use various HIV and AIDS role-play scenarios so trainees can practice the skills they learn at each stage. The facilitator and role-play partner give feedback and trainees can then practise again, using what they have learned from the feedback. A person who is HIV positive forms part of our team, and for many people the highlight of the course is meeting and interviewing someone living with HIV and AIDS. Role-play allows the trainees to put themselves into the world of the HIV positive person. They are asked to grapple with HIV related issues as if they were their own.

When people do Peer Educator Training they have to look at themselves carefully. The experiential exercises bring the human and personal element into the room with them. Trainees who were positive that they had never behaved in a discriminatory way realise that discrimination takes many forms. They are asked to explore their perceptions, address issues that they may have been unaware of.

I think one of the reasons that our courses are so effective is that we take LifeLine principles into every course or workshop that we offer. There are similar courses being offered by a variety of groups and organisations, and many of them are very good. However, they often focus heavily on the transfer of information. What LifeLine promotes is the knowledge that listening and communicating is just as important, if not more so, than being a channel of information. Communication is such an integral part of everyday life, but many people lose sight of this when they are dealing with others. If we can listen properly, we are truly engaged with the person who is talking to us.

LifeLine does not believe in “telling” people what to do. What we want is to create an atmosphere of trust, to facilitate the process of self-help through effective and sensitive communication. None of us are saviours; our job is not to “rescue” other people. Given the opportunity to explore problems for themselves, given the correct information, people are able to decide what course they want to take. This means that they are fully involved in the decision making process. They take responsibility for their lives, and they are strengthened through this process.

LifeLine doesn’t select the people whom they think would make “good” Peer Educators. Indeed, self-selection usually takes place over the course of the workshop. Some trainees may discover that this is something they are really cut out for. Others realise that this will not be the right thing for them to do. Some learn that they have personal issues that need addressing before they can accept the responsibility of educating their peers.

Whenever we run a course like this, we meet people who want more. They relate to the LifeLine methods and they want to do the full Personal Growth course. In some cases, although the company may be willing to pay for them to do this, people opt to pay for themselves. They see it as being part of the journey – taking responsibility for every aspect of their personal growth.

The trainees who attend our Peer Educator Training workshops are drawn from many levels. It’s great to work with people who are on the ground and who will, as Educators, be able to meet their peers at the right level. Sometimes I wish that more people from management would attend, although some companies do send their managers to us first. I often hear that not enough men are chosen to attend these courses, but on the whole, the people selected tend to represent the demographics of the company or organisation.

During the HIV and AIDS Peer Educator Training workshops, trainees are encouraged to share, to reveal their feelings and emotions about a highly charged and sensitive issue. For example, we ask them to share thoughts and experiences about loss and bereavement, about prejudice. One of the biggest concerns among trainees is, “Will this be kept confidential?” Confidentiality is something that plays a large part in our training, and we introduce it into many role-play scenarios. You can be the best listener in the world, you can give the greatest advice, you can have all the qualities of a fantastic counsellor, but this all counts for nothing if you cannot be trusted to keep what you have learned about your peers confidential.

It’s difficult to quantify the impact that Peer Educator Training has had on a company of organisation, mainly because of the issue of confidentiality. If someone has approached a Peer Educator, this is not something that he or she is going to divulge. We receive anecdotal feedback, and HR Managers tell us that people who have done the course are enthusiastic about the skills they have learned. They also comment on the fact that people within a company or organisation are talking to each other more easily.

LifeLine offers refresher courses for Peer Educators and some corporations and organisations have taken advantage of this, despite the busy schedules of their staff. The Educators are always very enthusiastic about follow-up training. They say that it re-motivates them, and gives them the chance to practice and improve on the skills they have acquired.

Educators are not trained counsellors, and for this reason, they are taught how to refer people to organisations or support groups. They are also taught how to put the proper barriers in place so that they can handle the people who approach them in an appropriate way, at an appropriate time and in an appropriate place. Each Educator has a manual to use for referrals, and to remind them of the key structures we have taught them to put in place.

There is so much to be done - to provide people with information about HIV and AIDS – to further awareness. The Peer Educator Training workshops do brilliant work in this area, and I wish we could reach more people, in more companies and organisations. Of course, as always, money is a big problem, but some companies are now using their SETA (Sector Educational Training Authority) allocations for these workshops. I would really like to see management becoming more involved. I know I’ve said this already, but I feel it’s an essential aspect of this programme. Peer Educator Training should embrace all levels of a company or organisation.

The more companies and organisations show that they believe HIV and AIDS awareness and training to be their responsibility, the more other groups and organisations will follow the trend. Some companies have been amazing in this regard. They have not waited for permission to act. They have taken the initiative, saying, “People are living with HIV, people are afraid, people are misinformed. It is our responsibility to equip our staff to deal with this.”

HIV and AIDS are tricky areas. It’s uphill work, trying to change people’s perceptions. Peer Educators are doing vital work, not only in spreading information, but also in showing people that they can take responsibility, they can be pro-active, they have the resources to manage their lives.

If you wish to learn more about Peer Educator Training, or about any of the other training courses offered by LifeLine, please contact Linzi Bourhill:

Email: linzi@lifelinewc.org.za
Phone: (021) 461 1113

Some comments from previous Peer Educator trainees:

  • I would recommend this to all companies – it is informative and relaxes you into a better understanding of HIV and AIDS.
  • This course has enriched me as a person and given me new insights into human nature – very valuable lessons.
  • Five days is far too short!
  • You have given me lifetime skills and motivated me entirely.

*The names of some people in this story have been changed in keeping with LifeLine’s policy of confidentiality.

When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving much advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a gentle and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.
~ Henri Nouwen
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